I recently read that kintsugi is a Japanese art form where broken pottery is fixed with a lacquer resin sprinkled with powdered gold. Once the broken pottery is fixed with gold, it actually looks much more attractive than the original.
The story of this unusual aesthetic goes back to the 15th century. The Shogun Ashikaga Yoshimasa had broken his favorite teacup and sent it to China for repairs. It came back mended with unpleasant metal staples. Seeing it so ugly, the Shogun became very disappointed. He then ordered his craftsmen to look for a more flattering means of repair. The potters decided to fill the cracks with the lacquered resin and powdered gold. The broken ceramic had become a work of art.
The Shogun had taken something broken and ugly and turned it into something beautiful!
From then on, Japanese collectors sometimes would break perfectly ceramics, just to have them mended in gold. These damaged pots actually fetched a higher price than their flawless counterparts.
Shouldn’t we turn our life’s cracks into works of art? Look back at your life and see how every crack has actually made you more beautiful. Often when I have asked people to look at their life, most have agreed that what seemed like a negative time eventually turned out to be ameaningful turning point for them.
From time to time, we all break. Relationships break, aspirations break, friendships break, health and wealth suffer cracks and at times we feel incapable of repairing ourselves. These are the very times that can make us beautiful. All that is needed is faith that whatever is happening has a cause and reason behind it. Often when we are in the midst of a perceived negative event it is impossible to see the good in that situation. But when we look back we can see that